Raise your vibration and send a ripple out to your household and the rest of our beautiful planet! Recently I talked about the circle of control and how you should stay in this as much as possible but let's talk about this on a more emotional scale. Whilst you can't stop what other people are choosing right now, you can focus on your vibration - and don't underestimate the ripple effect that your vibration has on the world right now. You are source energy, we are all connected because we are the universe - each and every one of us.
I saw a beautiful quote shared by 'Becoming Minimalist'. A quote that really made me stop and consider a lot of different things whilst we are all staying at home to do our part in restoring the world's health.
So it's been a strangely emotional time for many of us. Life as we know it has changed drastically for now so I thought it might help and be a comfort for many of you to talk through The Change Curve by Kubler-Ross. I thought of this when I sat and pondered my own emotions over the last few days. We used this model a lot in the corporate world and I realised that I was following this again right now and most importantly - that it was normal and ok to feel this way.
Right now it really feels like the world is going mad and unless you have been hiding under a rock these past weeks, you will have seen the Coronavirus media going crazy with stories about how this might affect us all. As usual, the media frenzy has caused mass panic that takes valuable resources and services away from those who really need them and has created a huge feeling of lack and fear. So lets look at how you can gain a bit of perspective around this and manage your personal energy even if you can't control everything else!
How to visualise and manifest - or even how to just visualise full stop! A lot of people have told me that they find it difficult to visualise at all so here is a simple exercise that will take just 1 minute to prove that all of us have the capability to visualise.... In fact we are doing it all day every day, except we may spend more time visualising about what we DON'T want instead of what we DO want.
Are there parts of your body that you don't love as much as you could do. My friend and I have started our own mini book club and our first book is 'If Life Is a Game, These Are The Rules' by Chérie Carter-Scott and the first few pages in the first chapter are jam packed with simple wisdom that has already been a great reminder of how important it is to value and accept our bodies.
So who or what are you giving your power away to? For the past 6 months I seem to have given mine away to the sad step - the scale! I only realised it a few weeks ago however. It had gone from a neutral measurement to something that was dictating how I felt about myself. So even though I felt really good in myself, more energetic, good in my clothes, the number on the scale was wiping out those good feelings.
Yes you really can change a relationship instantly in your life - on an energetic level but only if you realise that it starts with you. In fact it comes from you because everyone else is you 'pushed out', in fact we don't see people as 'they' are, we see people as 'we' are. Lets talk about how changing our expectations and behaviour can allow something very different in our reality.
So in the last episode (64. Scripting Law of Attraction - How To Get Started) I talked about how you can manifest more by making what you write believable. This helps you to gradually merge realities and weave your desires into your life. Specifically in this episode we will discuss how you can build your manifesting muscle by choosing something without too much of an emotional charge to get started. Enjoy!
So I wanted to do an episode all about law of attraction scripting / law of attraction journaling - more of a 101 episode to walk you through the basics in under 10 minutes so you can get started! I love to script and journal and have been doing it for years. In fact I know that some of my greatest manifestations have been supported by my scripting! So I hope this helps you if you want to start scripting or journaling to align more with a life you love and I will be back with more on this subject in the next episode.
Setting intentions that create your day! So do you set intentions for a great day or do you just let reality unfold around you and just go with whatever life throws your way? We really are powerful conscious creators and we get to shape our lives any way we want - and the easiest place to start is on a day to day basis. In this episode we focus on how spending a few minutes setting daily intentions can make a huge difference. I know from personal experience that the days I do this are always the most fulfilling ones. Enjoy!
Raise your money vibration! So here is an idea for you to re-frame your money energy and your money story, an exercise I do a lot to raise my own vibe when I forget how abundant I am. This comes from The Money Alchemist, Ming Chee's Blue Money Challenge (Search The Money Alchemist).
So who or what pushes your buttons in your immediate environment? What are the things or the people who are taking your focus day in, day out and affecting your energy. We can view all of these things in our lives as a nuisance or we can see these things as lessons that we need to help us learn something specific and evolve.
I don't feel good enough - time to uncover your story with this simple yet powerful exercise...
So let's explore more about your current story when it comes to your sense of self worth and deservingness and I've got an exercise for you to try if it feels good for you to do so - not because we want to beat the drum of what's happened in the past. I'm not one for going back over the past in great detail since I think it's far more important that we work on our present moment and create a different past for our future if needed....
Not feeling good enough?
How do we feel more worthy - because sometimes a high sense of self worth can feel elusive like its never quite within our reach?
But its actually so close that we can't reach out and touch it - because its within us and we have just forgotten it is there.In this episode we look at where you perceive your sense of self worth comes from vs where it actually should come from so that you can become more aware and start to make that shift.
Are you feeling worthy of everything that is in your life? Do you think you deserve everything that is in your life or do you feel you deserve even more that is in your life currently?
As we know, everything is energy - love, money, other abundance, careers family, home, our day to day world and everything you have in your life right now is underpinned by your sense of worthiness. Yes, your sense of self worth determines what you will allow yourself to experience in your world, your reality.
I get to do all this - what do you get to do everyday?
Lately I have been feeling a little grumpy and frustrated and I didn't want my energy going down that rabbit hole of 'everything is going wrong', things just aren't working out for me - this awareness is just one of the bonuses of being an alignment coach...
So I have revived my daily practice of keeping my 'get to do list'.
Change your story, change your life - starting with awareness.
I wanted to cover a subject close to my heart because this really is at the centre of all manifesting - both wanted and unwanted and that is 'our story'. We tend to do things, say things on a day to day basis that are keeping us stuck.
A bit like a re-run of an old movie that just keeps playing the same script over and over again. And when we play the same script over and over again, we get the same results over and over again. So we start our days knowing exactly what is going to happen. We do the same old things, talk to the same old people, moan about the same old stuff. Yes, our lives can end up a bit like groundhog day!
So we are continuing with our theme of creating our year instead of traditional goal setting so grab your journal and ponder the question for this session to add to your blueprint for the year ahead.
What do you want to do more of this year?
So think back over the past year and consider the parts of the year that you particularly enjoyed. This can be something that you did regularly or it can be a one off event that you really enjoyed and makes you smile or feel joyful whenever you think about it.
Is this something that you want to include more of in your life?
So over the past few sessions we have been adding layers of ideas and questions to help you make this a great year without the traditional goal setting and here is another question for you to help create that blueprint even further.
What passions do you want to spend time on this year?
And let's face it, it you are anything like me, your life is pretty full in one way or another - organising family life, running a home, your career or whatever else it maybe for you.
But are you taking any time for yourself to do what you are passionate about?
Do you even know what you are passionate about right now?