In this episode, we talk about words and how they are so powerful. After all, everything we say is an affirmation...and as I said in the last podcast, your dominant thoughts create those strong emotions and those thoughts and emotions are caused by the words that you use every day. If you could spend just 1 day minimum jotting down the thoughts that you think, you would quickly see why your outer world is the way it is right now. It will reflect what you are focusing on the most. The first step to turning anything around is to be aware.
So how do we stop manifesting what we don't want - and I'm not talking about those times when contrast is very necessary - I am talking more about manifesting by default due to the signal we are omitting day after day. Whatever you are putting out into the world, you are attracting back. Life is a mirror and this is not something you can switch off. It is turned on 24/7 and this does not mean we need to get paranoid about our thoughts - it's impossible for us to be positive every minute of the day.
So let's talk about your only job as a conscious creator because I know that you sometimes try and control absolutely everything - how do I know this? Because we all do it of course and even I have to keep reminding myself of this!If you just did these few things day in and day out until it became a habit, you will be amazed at the positive changes that come your way.So if you are creating my default instead of design then you might want to get a pen and paper and start getting more specific about what you want to create.
So let's talk about the energy of neediness vs gratitude and how this affects your energy. Everything that you transmit, through your energy, words and actions is a mirror for what comes back into your life. The universe only says 'yes' so think about the difference between the two ends of the scale. Neediness is creating an energy of 'lack' and 'I don't have' so guess what you line up with.
I always get the urge to declutter before the festive season and getting rid of the old feels so good and makes way for the new to come in. Decluttering has so many benefits and these reach much further than just the nice feeling of having a clean spacious room. Physically, saving the extra minutes everyday trying to find things, housework feeling a lot easier, letting go of the idea that we always need extra storage and being able to enjoy the stuff we love feels so good in itself!
So here's another way that you may be sabotaging your manifestation mojo without even realising it. You may see the universe as something separate from yourself! Now this has it's place and seeing the universe as a separate entity can really help when you are doing some fun manifestation practices. And although we know deep down that we need to take 100% responsibility for our life, we do start to rely too much on that thought that the universe miraculously delivers us anything we want on a plate. So we start to see the universe as this big wishing well instead of it being an alignment practice but this can cause us to be separate from it all. We hand over the responsibility to this higher power when WE ARE that higher power. Everything comes from inside! We are the creators of our world.
If you are anything like me, you may have become obsessed with conscious creation and universal laws to a certain extent. Whether you are fairly new to the concept or have been studying manifestation for years, you will know that finding quicker and easier ways to align with your desires can be quite addictive. But as amazing as it is to know and understand how we create our own reality, there is also a downside and that is...We may simply know too much about it all!And why is this a downside? Lets explore this more in this episode...
Affirmations don't work if you are feeling the total opposite inside, especially if you don't believe that they are true - this is a bit frustrating, especially when we create affirmations to help us achieve or be more. In this episode I talk about how to create affirmations that feel good to you and that are believable. With just a few tweaks and playing with the words you can create affirmations that you feel totally aligned with so that you can easily drop that resistance.
How can you see the gifts in the contrast when life doesn't feel like it's going that well? Often the only way past a challenge is though it and the quickest way to get through it is to see those gifts in the contrast which helps to re-frame and neutralise the energy that is otherwise being fed by our sheer overwhelm and constant attention.
Why you need to detach from your desires and how becoming obsessed with attracting something can actually push it away even further. In this episode I discuss a few ways to keep your manifestation vibe high whilst relaxing and loosening that grip.
If you are a conscious creator, you will recognise those times when you feel like 'the law of attraction is just not working for me' - so here is what to consider when you feel like conscious creation is too intense and a couple of things to focus on instead that can keep you nicely aligned without too much effort.
In this episode I talk more about pre-paving and how we are all doing it, all of the time but we just don't realise it. After knowing this, we can start to choose how we pre-pave and start aligning more with what we desire and not what we are trying to avoid.
There seem to be a lot of people who are now claiming that they are powerful manifestors that can make the rest of us seem somewhat lacking in our manifesting mojo. In this podcast I talk about why nothing is further than the truth as we are all manifesting all the time, whether we realise it or not.